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Reading along with us in 1 Samuel and Mark? Here’s today’s reading:
1 Samuel 25 (NIV)
David, Nabal and Abigail
1 Now Samuel died, and all Israel assembled and mourned for him; and they buried him at his home in Ramah. Then David moved down into the Desert of Paran.
2 A certain man in Maon, who had property there at Carmel, was very wealthy. He had a thousand goats and three thousand sheep, which he was shearing in Carmel.….Continue Reading
How did a lady like Abigail end up with such a fool like Nabal? It must have been an arranged marriage. Now Nabal is not wise to not provide for David after David had protected his sheep and men. But David is not wise to threaten death to every male in Nabal’s house because of the offense. So Abigail intervenes with all her charm and wisdom and says all the things Nabal should have said and brings the provisions that Nabal should have given. We named our daughter after this wise woman. We also should seek to be peacemakers in the presence of conflict and find the right things to say and do to bring it about. Soon after this Nabal dies as God takes his life presumably because of this. We just have to be careful to presume what God is doing and why He is doing it. We should not make quick judgements about things unless God has made it clear somehow. Christians can too quickly speak of tragic things being God’s judgement on people. It may or may not be….we just need to avoid presumption, particularly if we end somehow justified in it.
1 Samuel 25
Nabal certainly sounded like a rotten man. Refusing to provide for David and his men after their protection of them and seemingly without any real just cause but rather just because he didn’t want to. Certainly a foolish man blessed with a wise wife! Abigail, on the other hand, quickly provided gifts and humbly sought forgiveness and mercy from David.
I suppose one could argue she did all this without her husband’s knowledge or permission, which is outside her biblical role as wife. This was a life or death situation and therefore very necessary but I certainly wonder if this was standard behavior for Abigail, cleaning up the messes her hot-headed, foolish husband likely often made. Difficult to be a wife trying to always do the right thing standing by a husband who does not and still be submissive.
This chapter also shows us some more of the weaknesses of David in that he would have killed so many innocent people if it weren’t for Abigail. God’s judgement came on Nabal, David just needed to seek Him and we see his love of women taking on several wives which is not God’s intention for marriage and family.
1 Samuel 25
It is interesting that David spares Saul who is hot on his heels, but then is enraged and seeks vengeance on Nabal for his lack of hospitality.
I think Abigail is a good picture of the nuance of wifely submission. I think many of the challenges our culture places on the written instructions to wives are way more nuanced. “What if he does this?” “What if he tells you to do x?” Abigail is like Sarah who obeyed Abraham, even when she has cause for fear. She is a good picture of submission in a difficult situation. Abigail basically rescues her foolish husband and his household from certain death by her humble approach to David.
David relents and spares Nabal and his men, and God strikes Nabal dead. Of course David taking two more wives is questionable. Then again, it could be protection for Abigail in that time and culture.
1 Samuel 25